Destiny Faith McKoy, Coach and Founder of Mom School™, smiling while holding a notebook in a modern neutral-toned office. Faith-rooted coaching for clarity and structure.

My Story

How motherhood, identity, and obedience shaped the movement I lead today.

I didn’t set out to become a mentor for mothers. I simply wanted to follow what God was doing in my life. My journey into coaching, homeschooling, and leadership wasn’t perfect or glamorous it was honest, surrendered, and built in the middle of real life.

There was a season where the woman God created me to be had gotten buried.

Not because I stopped loving my family. Not because I was not working hard enough. But because I had been doing everything for everyone else while quietly abandoning myself in the process.

I was exhausted. I was striving. I was performing motherhood, performing faith, performing strength — and falling apart on the inside where nobody could see it.

And in the middle of that season God asked me a question I was not ready for.

Destiny — what do you want?

I did not have an answer. And that terrified me.

That moment became the turning point. Not because everything got easier. But because I stopped running from what God had placed in me and started saying yes to it — even when it did not make sense, even when the room was empty, even when I could not see what was ahead.

That surrender became the foundation for everything I build today.

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  • Now I understand that nothing about my journey was random.

  • As a trained makeup artist, I saw what confidence can do for a woman.

  • As a certified life and transformation coach, I watched identity and healing transform mothers from the inside out.

  • Through Cornell’s Women’s Entrepreneurship program, I gained the strategy and stewardship to build sustainably.

  • Homeschooling was where my work truly began. A small group of moms turned into a full community, and God used that season to teach me how to lead, serve, and build safe spaces for women. I no longer run a homeschool village, but the heart behind it lives on in everything I do today.

Get to Know Me

Get to Know Me

Fun Facts

  • I’m a heel and sneaker girl elevated casual is my love language.

  • 90’s/2000’s R&B and gospel? FAVS!

  • I’m an introverted extrovert . I love hosting events and going to dinner with friends and fam but my social battery has a limit!

  • I’m the mom who actually loves planning field trips and random projects.

  • I love all things creative. Singing, dancing, and even a few instruments feel like my quiet gifts from God.

  • I taught myself how to braid after experiencing postpartum hair loss, it became my personal act of healing and creativity.

  • My husband and I have been married 12 years Jan ‘26.

Favorite Things

  • A great pair of jeans

  • A sleek pump or my favorite Jordans

  • Gold jewelry (always)

  • Protective Styles— because being able to do my own hair doesn’t always mean I want to

  • Sprite or strawberry lemonade

  • A date night

  • Family time

  • Crabs, shrimp, lobster… filet mignon

  • Strawberry cheesecake

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Whether you’re rebuilding, rising, or stepping into your next chapter there’s a path here for you.

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Mom School: Where Your Growth Becomes the Standard

Rediscover yourself, rebuild your rhythm, and rise with a community of moms who refuse to shrink. Inside Mom School, you’ll find support, clarity, accountability, and a sisterhood that actually gets it.

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If you’re ready for clarity, structure, and a transformation that sticks, let’s build it together. My 1-on-1 coaching is for the mom who’s ready to stop surviving and start moving boldly.

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